Is it time Start the Sex Talks?
- Do you have a 7-12 year-old?
- Have you avoided answering a sex question?
- Are you worried about keeping it all age-appropriate?
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Is the Top Talks Course Right for You?
- Have you watched my YouTube videos but still feel hesitant to start the talks?
- Do you feel like your message is all over the place?
- Do you find yourself wishing you said something different afterwards?
- Do you want to initiate a sex talk but when the opportunity comes, you don't take it?
- Do you want to confidently provide age-appropriate & medically-accurate information?
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The Modern Day Sex Talks
Kathleen Hema, MPH
I've been working in the sex education field for 15 years teaching sex education to children, adolescents, teens, young adults, & parents. I'm now a full-time content creator making educational videos for parents on how to have the sex talks. Find me on Youtube, Tiktok, & Instagram. Follow me for a daily dose of sex education for parents!
As parents, we can share our values & we should!
I believe that family values are important to be shared with our kids. I truly believe that all parents want the best for their kids and this includes sex education.
No matter what your religious values or cultural beliefs are, I'll show you how to incorporate it into the sex talks.
Curious to Know How I Answer a Sex Question? Use My Scripts!
Are you curious to know how I would answer a specific sex question? Check out my YouTube Channel where I share lots of tips & scripts for FREE! But if you are looking for a structured course with all the digital downloads to assist you in having Top Talks - check out the Top Talks Course !
How to Get the Sex Talks Started
So many well-intentioned organizations, journalists, & teachers tell parents to:
- Start talking with your kid about sex!
- Start talking early and talk often!
- Don't wait until your child is a teen to explain the birds & the bees!
BUT then these folks never explain HOW TO actually go about actually having those sex talks!
My Age-Appropriate Guidance is organized by age-groups:
- Primary Age (4,5,6)
- Intermediate Age (7,8,9)
- Middle School Age (10,11,12)
- High School Age ( 13,14,15)
If you have a kid in the Intermediate Age - NOW is the time to really jump into the talks!
Learn how EASY it can be to answer your kids' sex questions! You can watch my videos on YouTube or get all the information streamlined PLUS the digital downloads to assist you in having the talks on a regular basis in Top Talks.
Frequently Asked Questions
Majority of these Questions come from @thekathleenhema IG, YT, & TT accounts
Kathleen has a Master in Public Health and has worked in teen pregnancy & HIV/AIDS prevention as well as sex education and she takes a public health approach to the sex talks. Her advice is based on the evidence-informed approach from the World Health Organization's International Technical Guidance for Sexuality Education. She uses public health theories on behavior change and developing one's self-efficacy to guide her videos, course, and parenting program. She does all the boring stuff so you can just start having the sex talks without having to do the research.
Kathleen provides parents with the medically-accurate and factual information for each sex talk. She explains how to have each talk in an age-appropriate way & is developmentally digestible for the child. Lastly, she gives parents the opportunity to explain why they believe what they believe. Basically, parents get to share their personal or family values and beliefs around the topic.
This is the underlying methodology to the Modern Day Sex Talks. This ensures your child receives factual information while providing the space so you can share your values (religious, cultural, or personal) during each sex talk. Because every parent has values! All parents want to share their values with their kids. Kathleen acknowledges that and creates the space for parents to share their values in each sex talk.
You can Sign Up today for Top Talks and quit struggling to get The Talks started!
Top Talks includes the following Lessons:
- The Where do Babies Come From Talk
- The Sex Talk
- The Puberty Talk
- The Relationships Talk
- The Online Safety Talks (TBA 02/28)
- The Masturbation Talk
- The Porn Talk
Top Talks also includes the following Digital Downloads for FREE:
- The Complete Guide to the Early Sex Talks ($30)
- Pocket Guide: Where do Babies Come From ($20)
- Puberty Topics in a Jar ($30)
- Teen Topics in a Jar ($30)
This course is now open to all parents!
- Do you freeze when your kid asks you a sex question?
- Have you avoided a sex talk?
- Would you like to know when to have all the different sex talks?
- Is your child in the intermediate age?
If you answered YES to any of those questions find out if this course right for you?
The Course is designed to eliminate your fears, use proven strategies so you can feel confident and prepared to initiate these talks instead of waiting for your kid to ask the question!
If you think it's impossible that you would ever initiate a sex, masturbation, or porn talk with your kid - Kathleen is waiting to hear from you!!
You get to choose what works best for you & your family!
Choose from Top Talks: Unlimited Access or Top Talks for 35 Days
Benefits of Top Talks: Unlimited Access
- 24/7/365 Lifetime access to the course content
- Immediate access to all new updates and bonus course topics
- Freedom to go at your own pace
- Revisit and reuse lessons as needed as your kids enter the Intermediate & Middle School Age
- Never buy another Digital Download! Any new digital downloads offered will be automatically included in your course dashboard for FREE.
- Peace of mind knowing all information in Top Talks is current and up-to-date, based on the latest academic research, the World Health Organization's Technical Guidance for Sexuality Education, and recommendations from the AAP, NIH, and CDC.
Benefits of Top Talks for 35 Days
- 24/7 Access to the course content for 35 days from the date of purchase
- Immediate accessI to the current Full Course
- Access to the current Digital Downloads for FREE
- Peace of mind knowing all information in Top Talks is current and up-to-date, based on the latest academic research, the World Health Organization's Technical Guidance for Sexuality Education, and recommendations from the AAP, NIH, and CDC.
Unfortunately, Top Talks: Unlimited Access and Top Talks for 35 Days does not automatically enroll you into the Parenting Program with Kathleen. The Parenting Program remains by invitation-only. Parents in the Parenting Program meet once a month to discuss current concerns, ask questions, and hear from other parents who are also having the talks. There are also opportunities throughout the year to privately speak with Kathleen during 1 on 1 meetings. If you are interested in joining the Parenting Program, send an inquiry to kathleen2hema@gmail.com
Private Consultations are no longer available to the general public. If you are enrolled in Top Talks, you can request a private consultation for a fee by sending an inquiry to kathleen2hema@gmail.com
- Do you have a 12, 13, 14, or 15 year old?
- Have you tried initiating a sex talk with them and they just ignore you or worse, walk away?
- "Topics from a Jar" is designed for parents who want to have the sex talks with their teen but haven't been successful at actually getting their teen to participate.
"Teen Topics in a Jar" has 30 questions and answers that take on average less than 5 minutes (for each topic) to discuss with your teen. It can be hard to get your teen to participate in the sex talks. Parents, use Kathleen's script to initiate the activity! It's consistently been proven to work to get your teen to participate in Teen Topics in a Jar! It's the words you can say to your teen to prove that this activity is going to be worth their time.
How many times have you heard, "the talk is outdated, you need to have lots of small, ongoing talks with your teen" but then they never tell you how to do that! "Teen Topics in a Jar" is the answer.
There are 30 Questions that you use to prompt a conversation with your teen. The answers are included so you don't have to go searching for what to add to the conversation. You can easily make sure your teen has the medically-accurate and factual information.
These 30 topics aren't designed to be asked and answered all at once! It's up to you to make it a part of a routine every other week. Do you have 5 minutes to have an ice-cream with your teen? Can you do that 30 times over the next 12 months? Then grab an ice-cream and pick a Teen Topic from the jar.
It takes 15 minutes from printing out the topics and answers to getting them into the jar. The hardest part will be introducing the activity to your teen! But Kathleen offers strategies that have been proven to get the activity going even with most hesitant teens!
If you don't have a teen yet, check out PUBERTY Topics in a Jar for your 8, 9, 10, or 11 year-old! It's an EASY way to cover 30 puberty questions that so many kids ask! You get the questions and the answers of course!
Are you ready to commit to ensuring your teen has accurate information about sex, sexuality, and sexual health?
(Both of these digital downloads are included in Top Talks).
Why Watch My Videos?
Are you Ready to Answer the 1st Sex Question?
Has your kid just asked you where do babies come from? Watch this video to learn how to answer this question without saying the word sex!
Learn How to Dispel Myths
Not every sex talk is about sex. Teaching your kid about sexual expressions they may hear helps to normalize their body and dispel myths.
Protecting Your Kid From Sexual Predators
Kids between the ages of 7-13 are most vulnerable to becoming victims of Child Sexual Abuse. 95% of all child molestation can be prevented through education. Learn how to have these sex talks that can potentially prevent your child from becoming a victim.
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- Does your company want to host a presentation on the importance of sex education?
- Do you employ many parents?
- Sex Education is a public health issue that most parents feel the least equipped to explain to their kids.
- Support your employees and community of parents by offering them a training on how to have the talks in the home.
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"I was worried and not so sure about how to start the sex talks for each of my kids but I still wanted to give them the best info I could. You can find most of the subjects for the sex talks on her channel, even those taboo topics! Her videos are honest & educational & it's fun to listen to her. Thank You for being there & helping all of us worried moms!"
"Kathleen is exactly the person I want this information from. Her background in sex education, added to her own experience as a mother, then combined with her warm and non-judgmental approach, is precisely the voice I need to help me with these talks with my children. She makes the difficult conversations easy, and her method of layering topics throughout childhood is so brilliant and simple to implement. I’m so thankful to have found Kathleen, and even more grateful the world now has access to her so that our kids can grow up without the shame and misguidance that so often comes with becoming an adult!"
"Kathleen is exactly the person I want this information from. Her background in sex education, added to her own experience as a mother, then combined with her warm and non-judgmental approach, is precisely the voice I need to help me with these talks with my children. She makes the difficult conversations easy, and her method of layering topics throughout childhood is so brilliant and simple to implement. I’m so thankful to have found Kathleen, and even more grateful the world now has access to her so that our kids can grow up without the shame and misguidance that so often comes with becoming an adult!"
- Naoko, mom of 7yo & 15yo
Tokyo, Japan
"Kathleen is exactly the person I want this information from. Her background in sex education, added to her own experience as a mother, then combined with her warm and non-judgmental approach, is precisely the voice I need to help me with these talks with my children. She makes the difficult conversations easy, and her method of layering topics throughout childhood is so brilliant and simple to implement. I’m so thankful to have found Kathleen, and even more grateful the world now has access to her so that our kids can grow up without the shame and misguidance that so often comes with becoming an adult!"
"Kathleen is exactly the person I want this information from. Her background in sex education, added to her own experience as a mother, then combined with her warm and non-judgmental approach, is precisely the voice I need to help me with these talks with my children. She makes the difficult conversations easy, and her method of layering topics throughout childhood is so brilliant and simple to implement. I’m so thankful to have found Kathleen, and even more grateful the world now has access to her so that our kids can grow up without the shame and misguidance that so often comes with becoming an adult!"
"Kathleen is exactly the person I want this information from. Her background in sex education, added to her own experience as a mother, then combined with her warm and non-judgmental approach, is precisely the voice I need to help me with these talks with my children. She makes the difficult conversations easy, and her method of layering topics throughout childhood is so brilliant and simple to implement. I’m so thankful to have found Kathleen, and even more grateful the world now has access to her so that our kids can grow up without the shame and misguidance that so often comes with becoming an adult!"
- Asa Akira, mom of 2 young kids
NYC, USA
"Growing up was awkward enough without culture, religion and avoidant parents mixed in. So as a parent, I'm grateful for teachers like Kathleen Hema who embrace the awkward AND make it accessible and appropriate to include sex as a natural and necessary part of parenting. I'm in awe of her ability to pave the way forward for us as we reparent ourselves AND learn to show up effectively for our children."
"Kathleen is exactly the person I want this information from. Her background in sex education, added to her own experience as a mother, then combined with her warm and non-judgmental approach, is precisely the voice I need to help me with these talks with my children. She makes the difficult conversations easy, and her method of layering topics throughout childhood is so brilliant and simple to implement. I’m so thankful to have found Kathleen, and even more grateful the world now has access to her so that our kids can grow up without the shame and misguidance that so often comes with becoming an adult!"
"Growing up was awkward enough without culture, religion and avoidant parents mixed in. So as a parent, I'm grateful for teachers like Kathleen Hema who embrace the awkward AND make it accessible and appropriate to include sex as a natural and necessary part of parenting. I'm in awe of her ability to pave the way forward for us as we reparent ourselves AND learn to show up effectively for our children."
-Rasathi, stepmom & mom to 2 kids
Singapore
My Kid Walked In On Me Having Sex!? - WHAT DO I DO?
Sex Education for for children is completely different than Sex Ed for adults.
I show parents how to intentionally deliver the sex talks in age-appropriate ways.
"Kathleen was so kind and helpful in giving me advice on how to talk to my son about sensitive topics. I reached out and she was happy to help."
"As mum to three boys, tackling sex and sexuality was a bit daunting for me; my own sex education was impacted by cultural and religious traditions including attending an all girls school. Kathleen's medically accurate and factual information is exactly what we were looking for, and the way she presents it in age-appropriate sections means that we can tailor our responses to our boys' ages, before adding in our own family values and beliefs around sex and sexuality. We want our children to be informed, confident and comfortable when discussing sex; Kathleen's videos and the information she shares helps ensure we're helping our children achieve this in an age appropriate way. I cannot recommend Kathleen or her videos enough!"
"As mum to three boys, tackling sex and sexuality was a bit daunting for me; my own sex education was impacted by cultural and religious traditions including attending an all girls school. Kathleen's medically accurate and factual information is exactly what we were looking for, and the way she presents it in age-appropriate sections means that we can tailor our responses to our boys' ages, before adding in our own family values and beliefs around sex and sexuality. We want our children to be informed, confident and comfortable when discussing sex; Kathleen's videos and the information she shares helps ensure we're helping our children achieve this in an age appropriate way. I cannot recommend Kathleen or her videos enough!"
- Alexa, mom of 14yo & 12yo
Massachusetts, USA
"As mum to three boys, tackling sex and sexuality was a bit daunting for me; my own sex education was impacted by cultural and religious traditions including attending an all girls school. Kathleen's medically accurate and factual information is exactly what we were looking for, and the way she presents it in age-appropriate sections means that we can tailor our responses to our boys' ages, before adding in our own family values and beliefs around sex and sexuality. We want our children to be informed, confident and comfortable when discussing sex; Kathleen's videos and the information she shares helps ensure we're helping our children achieve this in an age appropriate way. I cannot recommend Kathleen or her videos enough!"
"As mum to three boys, tackling sex and sexuality was a bit daunting for me; my own sex education was impacted by cultural and religious traditions including attending an all girls school. Kathleen's medically accurate and factual information is exactly what we were looking for, and the way she presents it in age-appropriate sections means that we can tailor our responses to our boys' ages, before adding in our own family values and beliefs around sex and sexuality. We want our children to be informed, confident and comfortable when discussing sex; Kathleen's videos and the information she shares helps ensure we're helping our children achieve this in an age appropriate way. I cannot recommend Kathleen or her videos enough!"
"As mum to three boys, tackling sex and sexuality was a bit daunting for me; my own sex education was impacted by cultural and religious traditions including attending an all girls school. Kathleen's medically accurate and factual information is exactly what we were looking for, and the way she presents it in age-appropriate sections means that we can tailor our responses to our boys' ages, before adding in our own family values and beliefs around sex and sexuality. We want our children to be informed, confident and comfortable when discussing sex; Kathleen's videos and the information she shares helps ensure we're helping our children achieve this in an age appropriate way. I cannot recommend Kathleen or her videos enough!"
- Dani, mom of 3 young boys
NSW, Australia
"If you're a parent looking for some guidance in your role as your kids' primary sexual health educator, check out Kathleen's YouTube channel. The videos are short and really helpful. Maybe you'll get some ideas and maybe you'll get confirmation from a qualified sex education and sexual health specialist that you're already doing the right thing!"
"As mum to three boys, tackling sex and sexuality was a bit daunting for me; my own sex education was impacted by cultural and religious traditions including attending an all girls school. Kathleen's medically accurate and factual information is exactly what we were looking for, and the way she presents it in age-appropriate sections means that we can tailor our responses to our boys' ages, before adding in our own family values and beliefs around sex and sexuality. We want our children to be informed, confident and comfortable when discussing sex; Kathleen's videos and the information she shares helps ensure we're helping our children achieve this in an age appropriate way. I cannot recommend Kathleen or her videos enough!"
"If you're a parent looking for some guidance in your role as your kids' primary sexual health educator, check out Kathleen's YouTube channel. The videos are short and really helpful. Maybe you'll get some ideas and maybe you'll get confirmation from a qualified sex education and sexual health specialist that you're already doing the right thing!"
- Dave, dad of 2 young kids
Geneva, Switzerland
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Start Having Top Talks Today!
The Top Talks Course has been updated & relaunched!
Top Talks Lessons:
The Where do Babies Come From Talk
The Sex Talk
The Puberty Talk
The Relationships Talk
The Masturbation Talk
The Online Safety Talk (launching on Feb 28)
The Porn Talk
Do you want to confidently have age-appropriate talks?